I feel for ya, man....
I did my best to keep my wedding costs as low as possible. Void
deck weddings are anathema to me, but I decided upon it since it
promised the lowest venue rental of all.
But it still took a significant hit on my finances
nonetheless.... 
my wedding would be in church only, no dinner, cos of
fatumnette's mom's passing, but the reception catering would be
split in half, halal and non-halal, including the WHOLE ROAST SHEEP
.....
so I expect you and FS must turn up yah .... 
